I read most of this book at night after taking Ambien

so, umm, I don't remember much of it. I think I liked it?


[city of bones]

I expected this book to make me all rage-y and angst-y like most feminist books do

But instead what happened is that it totally explained all the reasons my husband and I fight... all the things that have made our life since having kids so... *hard.* And then I didn't have to be mad at my husband anymore and I didn't have to be mad at myself anymore and it was just such a... *relief.* God bless you Joan Williams.

[unbending gender]

totally mindblowing

like, a total paradigm shift. wow.


[outliers]